Etiquette: Things You Do Unconsciously That Send People Away From You

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Have you recently noticed that people always move away from you? Or people don’t like to be around you and you rarely have friends but your defense is that “I’m a Loner”. But if you think about it well, Just Maybe, you will discover that you have an attitude problem and you’re doing some little unconscious things that send people away from you...Because No matter how much a friend likes you, some habits are just inadaptable and intolerable.

Below are 6 major habits that can send people away from you:

1. YOU’RE SELFISH: Many people do this without realizing it. You focus solely on yourself, talk only about yourself, and often don’t care what others around you have to say. You think you’re the only one that matters. If this is you, it’s time to change. No one wants to be friend with someone who only cares about themselves.
2. YOU ARE NOT HONEST: When it comes to being a great friend, or someone whom others want to be around, you need to be honest. Many people who partake in ugly behaviours are often dishonest, lying about everything, inquiring about every question asked about them, and how they truly feel about different things. Yes, honesty is the best policy.
3. YOU’RE NEGATIVE: Pessimism is not an attractive quality. If you’re constantly putting things down, or seeing situations in a negative light, try and change your attitude. Nobody wants to be friends with someone who’s constantly seeing the negative instead of the positive.
4. BEING RUDE: If you’re the person that’s frequently impolite, offensive, or upsetting your friends with your rude comments in public – please quit. You’re not someone people would want to be around. There are going to be times when you don’t agree with someone, or see something you didn’t want to see, but there’s no point in making a scene, because you’re making everyone look at your terrible behavior and they’re not seeing what you’re seeing.
5. YOU BELEIEVE YOU SHOULD BE BETTER THAN YOUR FRIENDS: Are you the person who has to be better than everyone else, see more, do more? If so, you’re an unattractive person. You should care more about your friends, and let them have their moment. If they overcame their fear of heights and climbed 10 feet in the air, don’t say, “That’s all? I’ve climbed 30 feet!” Instead say, “Wow! That’s awesome. I’m really proud of you.”
6. YOU DEPEND ON OTHERS BUT YOU’RE VERY UNRELIABLE: Are you there when your friends call for help? Or are you always busy when someone needs you? If you’re the person no one can count on, that’s an unattractive quality in friendships. Similarly, if you’re the one always calling for help from others, yet never offering yours when they need it, that’s another unattractive quality that no one wants in a friend.

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