Relationships: 6 Honest Reasons Why you’re Still Single As A Lady

It is true that not everyone wants to be in a relationship, which is 100% fine. But so many are still single especially ladies because of principles or walls they ve built around them. Some ladies do this unintentional though...So below are 6 things you are doing wrong and that is keeping you single:

1. You hardly go out: You have to grab the bull by the horns if you aren’t happy about your situation. Don’t just sit around and mope! You have to try even if you are not that kind. Go out, to parties, the cinema, fun places you would naturally meet guys from all works of life.

2. You set unrealistic expectations: Most females set expectations for “the perfect guy” which is just absurd. You will see so many ladies trying to do permutations. For example, you will see a 4.0 inch lady looking for a 5.5 inch tall guy. Height has nothing to do with personality. What has to do with personality? Forming and maintaining a healthy relationship. When you meet people, focus more on learning about who they are and on testing your compatibility with them as people.

3. Be a Good person to get a good person: What kind of person are you? What can you bring to the table? What are you offering to the scenario? Relationships are not a one-way street you know. I’m not saying you have to be perfect, but you have to look within and find out what you have to offer. If you want a compassionate person, you have to be compassionate as well. Be the person that someone would feel lucky to have found.

4. You Are Too Self-Absorbed: You imagine that the world owes you something. You feel entitled. You expect heaven to drop someone in your laps. You expect the best even though you might be a very shitty and lacklustre person. You need to get out of it and start thinking of showing people care more than you currently do.

5. You ve wasted your blooming years: A lot of women fall into this category. While they were younger they were serial daters and were in the business for fun. Now all those men they caught fun with have married religious girls and left them behind. They are now aged and sulking. Always bear in mind that your actions of today would affect your tomorrow. If you give a lot of yourself away at an early age, the word would get around and men would avoid you especially when age has started telling on you.

6. You don’t know what you want: You have to create clear cut goals. Think about exactly what you want and put it down somewhere. Don’t settle for less.

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